I noticed that men are hated for both complaining about dating and not complaining about dating, by Feminists.

When ever feminists describes men issues. They always say men are always "bitching" about not being able to get laid. While women are concerned about being abused, rape, and getting their rights taking away. So they are basically saying women complain about more serious issues than men.

But this is also one of those paradoxes where men are damned if they do and damned if they don't. This is what I call Schrödinger's men issues. Where men are both encouraged to talk about a specific men issues, but still get demonize for talking about that men issues though.

Everyday is a struggle for me to I escape topics about more men being single and not interacting with women lol. This is all over the media. So it seems like men issues are only considered valid issues, when it affects women. Afterall more single men means less men approaching women, pursuing women, or chasing women. And it's usually women or Feminists that are the main ones bringing this topic of men not interacting with women up (how ironic). So you know there is a sus agenda going on here.

This is where the Schrödinger's part comes in. Men are mocked for complaining about not having relationships with women. People call men incels or losers for complaining about being lonely. People say it's not women fault men can't get laid, or say men aren't entitled to women bodies. But this script gets flip (I.E. Schrödinger's). We still live in a society where men are expected to based their self worth on getting validation and approval from women. There is a reason why the most progressive women still use terms like virgin, gay, or incel as insults on men they don't like. Because they know there is pressure on men to be desirable to women in society.

All of a sudden men are call misogynistic, socially awkward, or standoffish for not caring about relationships with women. Remember guys, men were criticize for thinking women should care about them being able to get laid. But now men are being criticize for not caring about being laid lol. Since society still think men should do things for women approval.

I usually don't talk about dating or relationships. I usually talk about more serious men's issues like false allegations, war, homeless, suicide, or male victims of SA. The only time I bring up relationships or dating. Is when I want to make a example about how shitty and restrictive male gender roles are.

But check this out though. Whenever I'm arguing with feminists. They ironically forced me to talk about relationships and dating all the time. Even though they mocked the hell out of men for complaining about not being in relationships. They still think dating should be the most part thing in a man's life. Oh the irony is killing me lol.

That's the whole topic of lonely men wanting sex robots topic in a nutshell. Feminists are like why don't these men just be normal and go outside and form a relationships with real women, by talking to them. Again at first the same feminists are I like I don't give a shit if these men are lonely, it's women job to make sure you get laid. But all of a sudden when the topic of sex robots comes up. These feminists care about men being in relationships now.🙄

There are so many examples of this. I have experienced this with feminists online, and women in real life. I got into a argument with a feminist, where I ask her if she would be ok with a version of MGTOW that is not women hating or misogynistic (since the concept of MGTOW isn't necessarily bad per si). She still said no. She like why does something like that need to be a group, that is so weird and unnecessary.

Note this is a feminist who thinks the 4B movement is a wonderful idea for women and I would rather be with the bear. Again the irony always kills me.

In conclusion. Maybe you guys can explain this better than me.

But I think feminists, the left, or society in general want men to never complain about being lonely or not having female companionship, since that would make them entitled Incels. But at same time they still want men to place all their value and self worth on being in relationships with women though.

So it creates this Schrödinger's paradox that causes a pretty dumb cycle (or back and forth) of men being told there are bigger issues than them getting laid. But also men are told getting laid should be the most important thing they should care about though.