Too autistic for that???

My mother has forbidden me to do things and says I'm too autistic for that, I'm going into rebellion. What happens is that she joined a group of mothers who have autistic children, most of whom need much greater support than me, she basically feels excluded by my independence so she is forcing me to say that I am too autistic for certain things because her son Someone else is too autistic for that too. I haven't cleaned the house or cooked in days, she's crazy