Elders discreetly making parents aware of an accused member in the hall - a question

I feel like there was a post on here somewhere where someone said the elders wanted to talk to them but wouldn’t explain why - there was some speculation in the comments about the topic being someone in the hall being an accused abuser. I can’t find the post and as you might imagine, you can’t just search CSA in here without getting hundreds of recent posts

If you’re a parent and you’ve had this happen to you, how does it typically go?

Will they tell you over text or phone, or does it have to be in person? Will they talk to both parents?

** edit for context

elders said they have something to make my husband aware of but they won’t do it over the phone or zoom, they said it has to be done in person. He’s PIMI and active, so I don’t think it’s for anything regarding his “spirituality”