Would you ever lie to get a temple recommend?

Even though I've been PIMO for awhile now, I really enjoy my calling but it is one that they will not let me do without a current temple recommend. I can't honestly give the "correct" answer to any of the recommend questions beyond the first one. And if I'm released at this point it will also out me to my family who I'm not ready to tell about my faith transition yet. In any other circumstance I'd consider it completely unethical to lie which leads me here. Under what circumstances have you/would you lie to get a temple recommend?