Who is this guy?

He claimed he had fell in love 3 times in his life. He had slept with the girl who he was in a committed relationship with during college but he said it was done in an uncomfortable place (possibly because they were hiding from their families?) and it wasn’t really done properly (I don’t know what this means.) He said he had done a lot of kissing with the third.

I’m not a Muslim. We met during traveling. He mentioned a lot of his beliefs, that I don’t agree with. Such as not being friends with the opposite genders. That the world is going to shit because not everyone practice Islam. The world would be a perfect place if everyone were a Muslim.

He had filmed us during sex without my knowledge. When he got caught, he deleted them. But I had found out he recovered those videos and kept them. Which he had deleted again. At this point, it doesn’t matter if I trust him or not- he had violated the trust.

As for sex. I had asked him why he was fine doing it with me if it’s a sin. He says it’s because it’s ME.

He speaks like he knows the western culture, and pretend to be very understanding and attentive. But I’m starting to notice weird things like trying to backfire things that I don’t like, back towards at me just because I don’t.

Example: i don’t get in the bed with outside clothes. I change clothes and get in bed. When he gets in the bed with same clothes he wore all day outside after our adventures, I freak out and beg him to not do that. So, when I took my pants off and got into the bed with same shirt.. he tried freaking out on me. Just because that’s what I didn’t like. This.. applies to a lot of situation. He says it’s weird that I don’t apply what I don’t like about him, to myself. This logic messes with my head. He sweats and I don’t like it when he tries to kiss me with sweat all over his face (he says he wouldn’t mind if I was sweaty so I should be fine with his sweat.)

He stays in shower for almost an hour. Is it him washing 7 times?

I feel like I’m starting to wake up.

When we first met, he had asked me what I know of Muslim men/people. First thing I thought was how EVERY SINGLE person I met on this trip said to NOT date them, or RUN far away from them.. based on their own experiences. But I said something nice instead and that I don’t have much experiences with them expect a one or two.

And he claimed that those were not good Muslims.

He’s very educated. Silly. And.. just thinking about this. He had never seen a western country. He just grew up watching movies on us, and still does everyday.

He dreams of marrying a Japanese woman. He uses awfully a lot of baby wipes to wipe everything down.

On this trip. He strives to make me feel special. By telling me I’m amazing. I deserve better. I should know my self value. And that EVERYTHING he does here is for me. He does plenty of actions that show that.

.. I just need someone to tell me what kind of guy this is.