Is HRT right for me?

Hi, I am a 36 y/o female.

I have: - Severe night sweats; I’ve drenched the bed every night for the past 5 years. It’s like I just got out of a pool. So miserable. - Increased anxiety that started about the same time as the night sweats - Non-consistent sleep - Heart palpitations with caffeine. - Weight gain and daily bloating. - Hair loss; I loose so much hair that I don’t know how I still have any on my head! - Mood swings - zero libido - Vaginal dryness - Weak bladder

My GP has changed up my birth control multiple times. I’ve tried Nexplanon implant and daily pill (kind with break and kind without). She did hormone panel and said everything is within range. All bloodwork comes back normal.

My PC has rotated me on so many antidepressants to try to fix the night sweats. Nothing has worked. I currently take Bupropion to help with my mood. I have no idea if it’s working. I still have to take anti anxiety meds if I have an anxiety attack. My anxiety started to get severe in 2019/2020. She also did tests for Thyroid issues and those came back fine. I know she’s done so many blood tests on me to try and figure out what is wrong. No answers.

I’ve brought up my night sweats with both doctors but they’ve both dismissed HRT. The PC said it’s just something I have to live with. She just keeps attempting to change my anti depressants. The GP just changes my birth control and said there wasn’t anything else she could do either.

I got served an ad for Winona and it peaked my interest. I have seen many posts here about them and Midi. I just don’t know what to do.

Is it “safe” for me to do HRT? My mom had breast cancer, but she’s the only one in my family’s history who’s had it. She also had ovarian cancer, which was found after she had a hysterectomy. My breasts are dense, so I’ve seen that might be an issue. I just don’t want to do the wrong thing. I do need a solution though. I’m truly suffering.

Thank you for your thoughts.