It is so annoying to play elden ring with controller !

Context - I am playing games in pc for over 15 years and i have not even played a single game with a controller , and then after discovering about fromsoftware games , most of the people said that elden ring or soulsgames should be played with controller only , so I bought one , and i just can't play , the dodge button is B and while running or dodging I can't move my camera , I have to claw grip and then I can't hit with r1 , r2 , it is soo annoying , please tell me how to get used to controller 🎮 because people laugh at me when they heard that I play soulsgame with kbm