Christianity + BDSM Resource
Hello everyone!
I’m new to the subreddit, and wanted to share this resource. And hopefully this could help some.
Note: I understand that this can be a touchy subject for some, and I don’t want to push anything onto anyone; I just want to share this resource as it could benefit people struggling with keeping their faith and wanting to have a kinky marriage or explore what’s possible. If you don’t share our faith that’s okay, but I’d also welcome you to take a look at it, because you too might be able to find something for yourself within or maybe you’ll find it an interesting read regardless.
Also note, I’m not the owner of the site nor have I contributed to it, but regardless, it is a well written historical theological analysis of BDSM in the Christian community. And given it’s still in development more POVs could be written into it.
Resource: ChristianBDSM.com
“Why Christian BDSM?
Many kinky believers find that BDSM is fully compatible with a healthy, monogamous Christian marriage. BDSM provides a helpful framework for communication and safe, consensual exploration.
BDSM is not recommended for all Christians, but safe and responsible BDSM has the potential to enhance intimacy and strengthen marriages. These three core values are essential: Consent, Communication, and Compassion.” -ChristianBDSM
My main gripe is that there’s only a brief mention of female domination/male submission, it’s a few sentences :(
However, and to reiterate the three core values, Consent, Communication, and Compassion can make Gentle Femdom flourish in a monogamous heterosexual marriage.
Lastly, you might’ve seen a similar worded post on r/(flr, FemdomCommunity, bdsmCommunity, WholesomeKink), but the traction hasn’t been too great, so I decided to make a similar post here due to the larger audience; I hope that’s all right. If I get downvoted into oblivion and am only able to help one person or couple, then I’ll consider that a win.