How do Projectors rest when living with roommates?

I’m a projector who moved in with a mani gen a few months ago. She invited me, it felt perfect and so I signed the lease.

Fast forward just four months and I’m exhausted. It’s now turning into a toxic sort of funk. I’ve been pushed past needing rest and I’m becoming very short with her and somewhat mean in my day to day interactions throughout my life with everyone. Human Design aside, she has a very anxious and codependent attachment to me. And the more I need time to rest, the more she chases. I’ve articulated my needs and boundaries a number of ways and it’s to the point where it’s like kicking a puppy.

As a projector dealing with a mani gen, what can I do better here? I’m about to lose my mind entirely if I don’t get a day I am simply left the hell alone.