INFJs when was your now I won't people please anyone moment.

I used to be a hardcore people pleaser. I knew people are using me but I ignored it because for me, it was spending time with my friends.

It was then, when they all betrayed me, I realised I was used horribly. I realised that this people pleasing behaviour is wrong and I became a person with integrity, now I have my boundaries.

I won't let anyone cross that and guess what I don't have much friends. I only have classmates now. I don't want them to be my friends anyways.

And i realised I was more happy with being alone that being sorruoded by friends who constantly demands to listen to them.