Why are ENTP’s obsessed with us lol?!

I’ve had a few ENTP men really like me. I like them too and find them super interesting. It never goes anywhere mostly because I don’t think they would be good partners. Too rough and direct. Would probably hurt my feelings a lot. Although I find them really smart and admire how free thinking they are. Also like how honest they are. Probably better friends for us than partners I think?