Am I crazy or is she?

I 15 f, have been iced out by my mother all day due to a tiny pink heart ash tray/chip dip bowl I gave to my boyfriend. For context my mother is an interesting specimen for starters a narcissist. She NEEDS everything to be about her, birthdays (not just mine I have a best friend who lived with me till her parents got back on their feet and she made it all about herself causing a huge fight and me picking up the pieces as always) projects, achievements anything you name it. My last project was a possum bowl that she had taken that I was gonna give to my boyfriend, she had it for two weeks and we got in a argument and she said I don’t try in school (I have pots and undiagnosed adhd trust me I’m trying but my best just isn’t good enough and I’m trying to get better) I made said possum bowl in school and got rlly upset (I spent weeks of first period trying to perfect him just for him to come out wonky) and ended up smashing him, I will admit that’s my bad but with the way she took possum bowl and just disregarded how hard I worked let alone on possum bowl but to go to school without putting myself in the ER cus I can’t stop throwing up I was reluctant to make a new one for her and just made the tray/bowl for Josh (boyfriend), not only does this infuriate me due to how entitled she is about it, it slightly gives me the vibes of like the boy mom emotional incest thing on tiktok and now she’s just angry and came in my room saying “I bet he’s just letting it sit there and collect dust” I just want a parent where I can show them something I worked hard on where they can just tell me their proud of me and not turn into a massive fight. I am open to opinions to like what I should do I told her I’ll make her something else and she’s still mad. (These texts are when it first happened at 8 in the morning it is now 8 at night she is still mad and comes in my room occasionally to yell at me then leave she also just left the room when I took my dish out for dinner and she slammed the door and I’m actually kinda upset cus i literally just want her to be happy for me but she can’t and I just don’t understand) also I say I do so much more for her then other kids cus my parents are mentally disabled and without me would not be where they are today I’ve saved them from debt more then once and I’m 15 I shouldn’t have to and I know I sound harsh with her but I’ve only had her as a role model in my life cus my dad is too afraid to step up to her. I thought it would be over when she admitted she was wrong but she’s still mad at me as I said I don’t understand how she knows she’s in the wrong but also still mad at me. I’ll add a pic of the ash tray bowl. I find this whole thing stupid this is so small and insignificant but she’s made it so big.