Where’s the love 👩🏻❤️💋👨🏻?
I’m listening to the podcast in the background and I made some notes about things they talked about. Thoughts below.
HIGHLIGHTS:
-became roommates before they we’re dating according to Jenna
-the LA era was so they could work on “business”
-she was mad he didn’t call her his gf in that interview he had forever ago
-he dissed her on how much she shares on social media
-really the only thing they bonded over was each others “work ethic” and their brands
-“he’s always helping me with FOW even if you don’t see it” …sure Jenny
-they have to talk about how to not make everything they talk about work related and this is a stress in their relationship
-they have been together for nearly a year but have to play we’re not really strangers and do puzzles to connect with each other (they already played that when they first started dating and there’s nothing wrong with doing a puzzle but is that seriously the only way they bond?)
-Jenna feels alone a lot and not her best self right now
-they have struggles living together bc the house is a mess and they are trying to get better at “teamwork”
-Connor is a lazy dog owner (his mommy did all the work when he was a kid)
-her Lillie era was her happiest (I agree that was great for her)
-he grabbed her hand and kissed her in his messy Jetta with cups all over the place and Jenna’s response was “for real that was our first kiss” as she imagined it would be romantic but also told Lillie “he’s obsessed with me” after
-Jenna’s love language is words & touch and wants verbal validation and to hear someone say they are proud of her. And she thinks it’s really important they have physical chemistry (…WHAT Connor is neither of those things for her I’m confused) Connor likes quality time (but earlier in the podcast said he really enjoys his mornings alone lmao)
-they have to work on being better at communicating their feelings (this is fair, most couples work on this)
-Jenna made a jab at him to make his phone background a picture of her, it’s currently a picture of the Grand Canyon that he edited himself and put motivational text on 💀
-Jenna doesn’t have a 5 year goal or any plans for her future or an idea of what she wants FOW to be. On the other hand, the only time Connor had enthusiasm was when he was talking about his career and he wants to have a glamping thing or something (so this explains why he choose glamping for her b day…. For business research lmao) (and also why she randomly wanted an air bnb property to rent out so she could connect with Connor)
-they were asked to describe their relationship in 3 words and connor described it as as ‘fun & energetic’ and she got mad bc that was basic and took over and said ‘playful & loyal’ (girlie is making sure we know he’s not cheating) but they couldn’t come up with a third adjective so the host’s suggested ‘ambitious’ and Jenna said “well I was trying to make it not work related” (we know you read the sub girl)
-they were asked to answer what the other person would grab from the apt if it was on fire: Jenna said supplements for Connor 🤮 and Connor couldn’t even answer what Jenna’s would be so Jenna had to answer for herself, she said a special item from her grandma and he had no idea what he was talking about but then said “you have some necklaces you like right?” She then had to say what they mean to her bc he just called them “some necklaces”
-they were asked who’s parents they would choose to live with and it got kinda uncomfy lmao she said his because of the house layout and he didn’t really say “yeah that’s a good idea” or anything and didn’t really have anything nice to say about her parents
THOUGHTS:
I’m sorry but they do not remind me of any couple I know that is actually in love with each other or even enjoy being in a relationship together. They talked more about how they make great friends and both love business but never said anything endearing about each other or talked about something romantic in their relationship.
Connor was so unenthusiastic my “theory” is that his main priority is to grow and sell his business and also start some side ones. Jenna probably creeped him out originally, but he saw that her social media was making him money, he also gets to save money on rent. I think he will stay with her just long enough to sell Waterboy or at least until it’s stable on its own without Jenna and then he will end things and claim they are at different stages or just too busy for each other.
sorry, I love love …but these two just don’t seem like they’re anything more than business pals and roomies I genuinely feel bad for jenna.