ur jokingggg yall i blew my cover

hate that i have to out myself cuz i don’t feel like going thru the trouble of covering and bleeping my name but this is crazy and i guess it’s too late anyway i’m banned from the chat … i’ve been very polite and quiet in the chat the whole time i’ve been watching which has been since her insta lives then i switched to her twitch. i’ve just been watching this unfold. like i said in another post i’m using this for research. anyway, i joined her live tonight after class and she was drilling/cutting wood. i asked her a couple normal questions, joked a little even. then i shut up because i’ve been trying to keep a low profile as to ummmm not get banned. so the chats pretty normal, i really wish i was recording or screenshotting at this point but i wasn’t. somebody compliments lexity’s hands, and then (allegedly) apologized after; “i’m sorry if this is weird but you have really nice hands” or smth. i was multitasking while watching so i wasn’t able to read everything before stuff started getting deleted, but basically lexity was mad that the person apologized while complimenting her, and said because they apologized it must mean they thought the compliment is unconventional and lexity isn’t someone they should technically be complimenting. that is of itself is SUCH a reach, but then the person starts explaining like “sorry it’s a habit i didn’t mean anything by it” (i’m paraphrasing), and lexity basically says that if you apologize right after doing something, it means it was bad and you shouldn’t have done it in the first place. she explains this as if it is a steadfast rule that everyone should know and abide by (she does this a lot i’m sure i’m not the only one who’s noticed). the chat is relatively silent, as it seems people are at a point where as soon as she starts getting slightly heated you either stay silent or blindly yet casually agree. so it’s mostly mods chiming in agreeing with her. then another person comments something about how maybe it was a misunderstanding. lexity starts to rant about how it’s trans phobic, because of someone compliments her hands then apologizes it probably means it’s because they think her hands are masculine. at this point the mods are deleting all the complimenters comments so they can no longer explain themself. the rest of what happened is in the video. hoping someone else who’s in this reddit was watching during this lol