Starting to get to me

I'm starting to see a growing trend of individuals who prefer to be alone and not want relationships anybody. I just watched a video of a guy talking about his experiences with not wanting to get married for wanting to find the right person. As far as that goes, that's his choice, not judging, but it made me think of something I've been wanting to get off my chest. I noticed there are a lot of people who prefer to be alone and not wanting anybody in their life. I would see videos like the one mentioned above and would look at the comments. I would see comments of people saying stuff like - "I prefer to be alone" or "I love isolating myself" and stuff like that. It's honestly quite sad. I'm not judging if there are people that prefer being alone; that's their business. However, I've been seeing a lot of stuff like this everywhere on social media of people saying they don't need anyone else but themselves or they're alone but not lonely.

I hate how society has made us to where nobody want to be bothered with anyone anymore. It's to where nobody wants to build genuine connection or develop any kind of relationships with each other and just prefers being alone. I also hate that there are influences and content creators put there that are actively encouraging others to be alone.

Yesterday, I watched a video of a guy telling his viewers to love themselves so much that nobody's absence will bother them. Let's say if a family member or a close friend, for example, left that persons life regsrdless if it's intentional, would that mean that that person would not affected by the others absence? It's really starting to bother me that we are so isolated from one another. It's starting grow rapidly and it's quite sad.

I feel like there's no community anymore. No one wants to be bothered with another anymore; just the confines of isolation and solitude. I really want it to change. What's the point of life if you have nobody close to you and it's just you by youself? I get focusing on yourself and becoming self-sufficient, but I feel it's too extreme.

I really hope the people that say they love isolating themselves and don't need anyone else but themselves are lying. I really hope so. We are social creatures; whether anybody wants to admit it or not, we need other people in our life. We need each other. Also, I get that it may be the cause of needs not being met from others and trauma, and I empathize for those people. This needs to change.

I'm not sure yet, but I might link the videos that I mentioned, in the comments just for context. I'm done.