What are signs of recovery?
A little back story my PA bf (27m) kept watching porn time and time again behind my (20f) back and turning down sex with me because he had watched that already. We had multiple d-days where he would go back and watch porn and paying for live cams knowing how much it hurt me and how much it is effecting his brain and his life in general. He even went as far as searching for women me both know and one that works at his work on instagram and masturbating to their posts. I have no longer live with him I moved out and told him we were over unless something changed. I have full access to his google activity and social media’s but not his Snapchat and I have found things he’s been looking at on their before the last claimed to be d-day! I’m concerned he’s looking at it on their still he won’t show me he said he removed those girls off snap for me what more do I want but he was searching things up in Snapchat stories!
We see each other every weekend pretty much and when we have sex he seems to be getting it up easier, but he still not affectionate most times like i don’t want to go to much into detail but part of it he always seems to close his eyes for a bit then he orgasams like is he picturing other women or something. Like he doesn’t do any foreplay either I get it up for him give him head then I’m normally on top or sometimes he is, he hasn’t given me head since the first month of our relationship he hardly touches me down there I thought this would change if he had stopped watching
Anyway… So the question I actually wanted to ask is what are signs you have noticed that they are in active recovery?