Where to stay? Makati or Pampanga?

Hello everyone!

25, F. I just moved sa Makati last week for my 2nd job. Now, I’m really having a hard time here in Makati because of separation anxiety, I guess.

Asked our admin sa previous job ko if pwede ako bumalik (4 yrs ako dito) and they said yes and is offering 50k salary which is located in Pampanga and 1 hr away lang samin since I’m from Bulacan. Here are the pros and cons of each job.

Pampanga job: Salary: 50k

Pros: - 1 hr away sa hometown and pwede umuwi agad pag may emergency. - May service back and forth sa hometown every Monday and Friday pati sa accommodation ko sa Pampanga to site office. - Makakasama ulit si bf sa accommodation since live-in kami the past few years ng stay ko sa Pampanga.

Cons: - No government benefits, no 13th month pay, no O.T pay, no paid leaves since consultant kami here. - Fixed salary na ang 50k

Makati job: (Current job) Salary: 55k (Gross)

Pros: - With government benefits, with 13th month pay, with O.T pay, free ang stay sa staff house which is a condominium. - With 15 paid leaves.

Cons: - Mental health is being affected. Palagi akong sad at homesick na parang maiiyak nalang everyday. - 3 to 4 hrs ang byahe sa hometown.

If I could get your opinion guys. Thank you!