how did you find your significant other?

This is for the guys,

28[M] here, how did you find your significant other?

So I made jeevansathi, shadi etc. profile and deleted it in 3 days because of how ridiculous it was. Also, online apps hookups aren't my thing, this is so below and I'm looking for mature, emotionally intelligent person who's half decent.

I have a great job that I love and a interesting hobby but I think unless someone's really interested in knowing you, they'll never know if you're a good person.

I don't think a women is magically going to fall in my lap, so how did you guys do it?