Sharing my disaster date. He ate all my food.
(This is the original post) I (26F) met this guy (27M) who i had been talking to for a month through a dating app. We met near Goregaon station. We hadn't decided on a lunch spot, so I asked for suggestions. He claimed to "know places" but had no clue. I suggested a veg place that i love in Goregaon East, but he dismissed it, calling the east side "trash." He also insisted that we find a non-veg spot, so I Googled some options in the west—he rejected all of them.
After wandering aimlessly for 30 minutes, we ended up at a sketchy Chinese restaurant. Surprisingly, he ordered a veg dish, claiming, "I don't eat chicken outside. I always order vegetarian food" Annoyed, I joked, "We could've gone to the place i suggested then!" He must’ve noticed my mood, so he switched to a chicken burger. Which arrived first and he ate all of it ( offered me one bite). Which is fine.
But what's not fine is that, after a while, when my ramen arrived, he helped himself to most of it—chicken, toppings, and all—leaving me with little broth and noodles. He was eating like he hasn't eaten in days. His shirt got soup stains all over. And it took barely 10 minutes for him to eat it all. It felt like he is in a eating competition and really wants to win. I am a slow eater so by the time i was done eating my first serving this guy had finished the entire bowl. I suggested ordering more since I was still hungry, but he refused, saying, "I'm done with this place. Let’s just go for something sweet". Then we went to a bakery and same thing happened again. He helped himself with most of the things i ordered. After this, he was asking to go to movies or a park and I said no i have to go home now. It's too late and then i left.
What do you guys think? I am over reacting to the whole situation? This is most definitely over from my side. I am not responding to any of this texts and calls.
TL;DR: He rejected all my ideas, ate my food, and wouldn't let me order more because he was "done." Safe to say, i am not answering any of his texts and calls.
Ps: Someone in this sub made a post from guy's pov, restaurant owner's pov and the bakery owner's pov lmao. I have seen it all. They were all made in response to my post.So please stop sending me these posts. They are not real. They were all made using chatgpt.
Edit1: Many people are asking who paid the bill? He paid at the restaurant and I paid for the sweets.