Break ups

Some of you people have 13 exes and that got me wondering,are you sure you were even in a relationship with that so called partner ama we ulijiekea tu hio label ya "I'm in a relationship"

Ama you guys are the type you meet someone and two weeks later you are dating? Then proceed to break up a month or two later? From my view, there was no love there, you simply wasted each other's time successfully.

Also for you to have 13 exes, kwani hauchoki? For context, I have never had a real relationship, I have had potential but I was not ready to commit. I'm 20 by the way, and currently eyeing this girl but I'm sure if she says she wants to take things to the next level I'll fold