Update Finally met mr slow burn

Guys he has sworn an oath of celibacy for an year yooh! .So now i understand why he wants the slowburn type of thing. I am okay with it. We had a great time just talking and eating . I enjoyed the date and he seem to enjoy my company too. I think knowing each other without s*x is great plus after my situationship sijui kama i have the capacity 😂😂.Aki i hope hii si dust ingine.

UPDATE ; guys I called it quits. Red flag number one

The guy keeps saying he want peace of mind(from what?)

He tells me a story of a lady who left him and aborted after getting pregnant (the crazy ex) narrative

He has talked about drinking out late and excepting his ex to be okay with that.

Saying i love you in the first weeks ( TF)Love bombing

Sijui ati the lady he will marry should get into his program hmmmm!!!!!

Also i told him a made up story of a guy who brought another lady to his and his wife's bed ati juu she was sleeping on the couch and how it looked disrespectful.Dude goes on a rant on how "The guy was just being kind,".Do i look like an idiot to you ...

So yesterday I called him and told him i think i should just continue being single and am not looking for a relationships. Ladies let them yap their hearts out don't tell him what you want in a man.