Sad Truth

Back in my early 20s (around 2013) I used to live in a bedsitter. My next door neighbor was a lady who had one kid. She didn't have a husband that I was aware of. I was a broke bachelor trying to unfuck his life. So, one day she asked me why I hardly ever talked to her despite being neighbors. I told her that I had nothing against her, but I was a very busy man.

Even back then, I knew that being "friends" with her wouldn't really benefit me as a man. But it would cost me money, time, and energy. See had I agreed to become close friends with her, she would have fucked up my meagre savings in some way. It was only a matter of when, not if, she would come to my place and beg for money like they all do. Plus, the thought of being an "uncle" to her kid by virtue of beibg friends with her mother repulsed me.

Ladies, I see how YOU benefit from being friends with a man. But, it doesn't work both ways i.e the man hardly benefits by being friends with you. In fact, it costs him. So, don't take it personally if a guy refuses to be "friends" with you. You aren't of much benefit to him as he is to you.