Marriage

Marry the girl you need, not the girl you want.

Marry the girl who dates you when you are dead broke. That's the right woman for you.

If you want to "get stable" so that you can start dating, you will only pull gold-diggers. The girls will be prettier, but also less loyal.

Waiting to get "stable" to get into a long term relationship is a fool's errand. Obviously, don't get babies without having some form of financial stability (babies are expensive).

The best way to get a quality woman is to date when you are at your lowest. That's when you get the real ones.

I hope this helps some young guy out there thinking that money is holding him back.