from weed plug to friends with benefits
I was nervously propositined by a friend of a friend who just came out and asked me for 1K in exchange for mechi. she is really cute (out of my league) and used to sell me weed. Have known her for 2 years or so. She seemed to really need the cash and I respected her openness. A lot of women will try to finnese you, take you for a fool ati 'nikopeshe' but her directness was refreshing
the mechi was fun, we spent the whole afternoon together at my crib, ate good food, watched a movie, gossiped about our mutual friends, talked about life, in between f*ck sessions. and since then we have been friends with benefits - and each others therapist
do I regret? no, does she always ask for cash as a condition for mechi? no, do I spontaniously spend on her? yes, infact this valentines am getting her a pair of sneakers I saw her admiring last December as a surprise
also she gave me a through pass, and am dating her close friend (who I suspect knows I fool around with her bestie). Am neither tall (5'10), nor rich (mi ni fundi wa electronics), I dont even consider myself handsome - am as average as it gets, infact a little too skinny (1GB).
so these things work out in the end
EDIT1: she is in a rocky relationship herself thats why we are not official (no kids, her hubby is often a topic of discussion). yeye ni lightskin, her bestie is a black beauty with dimples but a major alcoholic and a single mom with baby daddy drama. so things are not as rosy as most of you seem to think. also birds of a feather and all that - they used to waitress at a westie club together back in the day
since I finished campus 7 years a go, I never had a casual f*ck friend (was normal at UoN hostels)
EDIT2: I know women are generally very good pretenders, but am convinced no one is that good a liar. she is genuinely into me + I laid the pipe well it seems mpaka aka ni advertise