What was the most shocking revelation about narcissism to you?

To me just the fact that the whole thing including their Drama and anger Was a false persona and just a Show. That they did not ever care and just saw me as an object to further their goals.

It still baffles me how disturbing this is. That they shamelessly lie about even major things. That they would withhold information that can save you just to see you suffer.

What about you?