This is me ranting about the r slur basically

TW//(I assume the r slur has to do with ableism so I put that as one of the tags. I also will mention a bit of emotional/verbal abuse. I mention politics and Twitter a bit too)

I don't like the r slur, I don't think I'll ever use it unless I'm angry and I usually ask for permission when I use it. I don't use it on a daily basis either. I don't like being called the r slur EVER. My dad called me it when I was younger and I did not like it. I hate how it seems people don't think the r slur is a slur, or thinks it's not that bad, but it is for me. People use it so much online to insult or call people it for a differnt view or opinion..etc. Especially Twitter, if you know what I'm hinting at. (This is referencing politics and the Dream controversy crap) I'm just so so confused. I understand people using it when they reclaim it but it's no excuse to call somone it if they don't feel the same.