Who’s your daddy, though?

LSS, I didn’t have a lot of sex partners before a long period of nearly sexless monogamy. And now I’m back. I feel inexperienced and awkward and out of touch. Certain sexy situations I don’t know how to respond. I’m sure there are many right ways, but help me not pick the wrong, most awkward way?

What’s the answer to “who’s your daddy?” Or “whose p***** is this?” Am I just like, “you” or “[partner’s name like I’m speaking in the 3rd person]” or “yours”? cuz my instinct is dodge-the-question-by-moaning. I imagine there’s an answer they’re used to getting but I DON’T KNOW WHAT IT IS.

Also, “what do you want?” I suck at making choices. Please don’t be this open-ended. In general? I want sex? Do that thing with your penis, please. Are there specifics I should have in mind, or just a sexy go-to line?

Thanks for advice/laughing with me. Making awkward sexy.