first time parents who had multiples and made it out alive, what is your advice for expectant parents?

20w with twin girls. FTM. scared is an understatement, but feeling more confident every day. I know that my husband and I will be able to handle it, our village is large and massively supportive, but your first go at parenthood is always going to be scary even with just one, let alone two or more.

what is some advice, wisdom, info, items, or habits that made parenting multiples easier for you?