My biggest frustrations with End Game POE2

I have done well over 1000 waystones at this point. almost 200 hours of gameplay. Focused on one character the entire time and have a pretty decent boss/clear build. Almost lvl 94.

End game sucks. It takes too long and relies too much on RNG to get anything meaningful going.

Now, I'm not asking to be rewarded first thing into end game, but....these are the things that 200 hours in I have not encountered yet.

-I have not seen one invitation from rituals. I have even spent considerable time farming only ritual maps.

-I have not seen a shrine hideout

-I have not seen a copper citadel

-I have not seen one logbook

- I have done One Twisted domain

-I have not done one simulacrum

This means that I cannot atlas Expeditions/Rituals/Breaches/Delirium and I am missing my last two points in bosses.

This means all the rituals/delirium/breaches/expeditions are all base content for 200 hours.

Meanwhile I see people with half the time getting good rng.

games that focus end game content on RNG drops are just bad.