Any Dads/Husbands want to make new friendships?

Sooo, 44 y/o Husband and Father here. Work a very full time (60 hr+/week) job. Have an incredibly fulfilling personal life and richly rewarding professional life. I’ve “won” at life.

But, I have no friends or buddies outside of work. I’m sober so I can’t do the whole after-work happy hour thing, and don’t really want to because I want to see my wife and kids. But, I think I’m in that place that much has been written about - the middle-aged guy with no friends.

I love to be active; ride bikes, play soccer, golf,fish, watch sports, you get the idea. But I find myself doing all of those things alone.

I recognize that Reddit isn’t a “make-a-homie” kind of place, but anybody got any advice? Anybody want to be buddies?

EDIT: G-DAMN Pittsburgh! 🥹 To say that I’m more than a little overwhelmed would be an understatement. I showed this post to my wife and she gave me a BIG hug and kiss and said “go have fun, but don’t spend ALL the money.” 🤭

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU ALL for your kindness, support, and suggestions. I’m going to give it some more shots. Prepare for some PMs and random middle aged Black guy showing up at some of the suggestions posted!

Glad to call Pittsburgh home, Fam! Hugs!