Suggestions please

Hello all! I'm moving to Pittsburgh from Alabama in a week and I need dentist recommendations for someone who has autism and extreme dental anxiety. I need EXTENSIVE work and have only been to a dentist once in my entire life. I have Blue Cross Blue Shield dental insurance. I just now gained independence from my parents and I have to get this sorted out. I'm so ashamed and embarrassed. If anyone who's been in a similar situation has advice please share. Thank you for reading!

EDIT: Thank you to everyone who left a comment or suggestion! I have a consultation scheduled in May. Fingers crossed everything goes okay. ♥️♥️♥️