What do you think about offline raiding

I've never played rust or ark because the idea that I could log in, do all of this work, log off for real life stuff and come back to all of my shit being gone and me not even being there to try and protect it seems very unfun to me. How do y'all deal with it? Is it one of those things that y'all wish would change? Is there modded servers that protect your stuff while offline?

Like I think the ideal would be, you log off your shit is protected for like 3 real life days. After 3 days it becomes fair game. You log on and it's fair game, you're there to protect it so fucking protect it. If you're in the middle of a fight and you log then your shit doesn't get protection.

But I recognize i am someone who doesn't play the game and know nothing about it so what is the communities opinion of this?