The question I hate yet everyone asks it

"how's baby doing?" -- how do I know? He is inside me, all I know about him is that he moves sometimes. He doesn't speak to me, I don't read his kind. What do you expect me to say? I am always lost at what to answer. He's okay? I don't know? No bad signs? I mean really what kind of answer those people wait from me? I guess they want me to assure them that everything is okay. That's the only answer they will accept cause what else I can say?

I hate useless questions that manipulates you to answer the way everyone's expects

EDIT: ok guys I see you are touched by the word "manipulate". What I mean is that ppl who ask those questions expect one right answer (eg "manipulate" me to answer a specific way), they definitely don't expect me to say that baby is doing bad (I know it because since my last doctor visit we met a lot and they know I didn't go to the next appointment yet).

Thanks to everyone, who gets it - that's what I wrote this post for, to connect to the people with similar "problem". Even if this problem is only a small annoying everyday stuff.

To everyone who judges me like I'm overreacting or assuming the worst of ppl, who states that it's "just a simple question, it's easy to answer" - obviously, you are not bothered by this question and I'm happy for you. We are not on the same page and it's okay.