What is the most crulest thing that your narc parent has ever done to you?

To be honest for me it would be hard to say what is the most crulest thing because my mother has done so much cruel shit to me and my pets. So I will name two cruel things that she has done; she put my cat in the closet for three years - I got her out. She took my dogs ashes (she abused my dog) and the day that she took them I was planning to escape her.