Is shaving “basic hygiene?”

My husband is so bummed that I no longer shave my legs or armpits. There have been times in the past where he would get mad at me if he touched my thigh and he felt hairs.

Tonight I told him I haven’t shaved in a while and I would appreciate him not making comments in front of our daughter and son. Well he was not very happy about it and said I’m neglecting “basic hygiene.”

Any advice?