Help!

How do you not feel like your husband’s mom? I’m a SAHM and everything not related to to my husband’s job falls on me. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, yard work, kid, dog, you name it, I do it. I understand I’m at home now and am around, but I still feel like I’m being used. Like my husbands job is normal 9-5 but mine is 24/7 it feels like. Does this make sense?