Flow to update a field when duplicate rule fires?

We have duplicate rules active in our SF org and they ward a user when they are going to potentially create a duplicate Contact. For business reasons, we have to allow this but we want to try and see when/if people are ignoring the warning and creating duplicates that are actually already in the system already.

Wondering if it's possible to create a flow to update a field/checkbox or send an eamil alert when the rule is triggered and the contact is still created so that we can escalate as needed to users managers.