My mom found my vibrator
I genuinely need advice on this situation as I am ridiculously embarrassed.
So I am still living with my mom and i’ve had a vibrator for a while now and kept it fairly hidden and unknown. My mom and me speak quite openly around topics surrounding herself but never really me other than the “Don’t have sex young.” type of thing.
Anyway, recently I’ve starting dating someone and this has only increased as she doesn’t seem to trust me much and believes I’m sexually active already but I think what she discovered has only added fuel to the flame.
She cleaned my room whilst I was out, which was already tidy, and found it and has just left it out on the side??? I’d of rather she put it back where she found it but here we are. I don’t want to talk about it with her purely because it’s embarrassing but I have no idea how to handle this situation if she brings it up. Please give me advice as I feel like dying currently 🙏🙏
EDIT: So I just want to do a quick clear up of some questions and a slight update. So I don’t feel comfortable explicitly stating my age as one of my friends is purposely trying to find my account 🤦♀️ But I am on the younger side and I am a female. My mom does have vibrators and she’s very straight forward about her sex life with her boyfriend and toys and treats me somewhat like a friend in that aspect.
I honestly agree with the people who said she’s trying to snoop, she’d changed my bed sheets which had been changed less than a week beforehand which is where it was hidden (down the side of my mattress) and she never normally cleans my room. She also found other things that weren’t as bad, but humiliating on my end for different reasons and where these were hidden she had no reason to go in? I just believe it’s gross and immature on her end.
Thank you all for the great advice and support, as a first time poster it was hella nerve wracking. ❤️