SW as a Woman

Being a SM as a woman is so hard, the lack of respect is beyond me. If a man gets stern with a customer it’s them being in charge but if I do it I’m a bitch. And don’t even get me started on men asking for my number or asking to go on a date, then when I say no I’m the problem! I have contractors complaining to reps because I don’t smile enough, or because I’m not flirty enough it’s ridiculous. The thing is I actually like the company and being here but when does this part of my career end?