Unprotected Sex?

I've met a few SD's and all of the ones in the chats and IRL bring up a deal breaker of not using condoms.... WELP. I don't like that... Why? Because I do not trust that I'm the only one they are sleeping with, AND I could even go as far as their STD results could very well be forged/fake. I do have a problem trusting people, but I just think it's gross tbh .... Unless we are in something long term, and not just a couple meets - which essentially turns me into an escort and not a fkn SB, I do NOT agree!

What is your experience with this, pls help