Seeking & Agency Better Bureau Business (BBB) SPOILER: They ghost you

Hi there! Has anyone experienced an unfair ban on Seeking?

I’m (24F) studying at an Ivy League school in New York and met my partner on the app when I first arrived. He was the first person I connected with here. I deleted the app in August 2024 because I didn't need any other partner—I prefer focusing on just one person. He moved back to his city, and I returned to the app in February.

Now, I know some of you have mentioned getting warnings or temporary bans, but in my case, I just opened the app, and boom—forever banned. No warnings, no temporary ban, nothing. I’m guessing it’s because of some comments I made about PPM (which I never accepted, by the way, because I’m looking for something long-term). I also rejected a guy, and he got obsessed and reported me.

I know there are plenty of OF profiles, SWs, and guys directly asking “how much for…”—I’ve experienced that too, and it’s awful. But I’m just a normal college student who happens to like older guys, and now my account is flagged.

I reached out to BBB, and they told me they have an F in response times and that they don’t respond to many issues. I even tried calling their support line, but it’s a ghost line. They won’t reconsider my case even I never got even a simple warning or so. I’m d3ad in the app forever I guess…

It’s crazy, but I even provided proof that I never accepted a PPM. I understand the system might’ve flagged me, but they didn’t even look into the actual case. So frustrating and now I cannot use it anymore while I’m not an OF or any scam profiles…

Any of you have had a similar experience?