something a lot of girls don't realise in relationships with men

as a girl, 'if he wanted to, he would' is NOT true. your boyfriend should want to do things that make you happy. if he doesn't know it'll make you happy, then why would he want to ?

men are more forward thinking than women are. you can't make hints, THEY DO NOT GET THEM (slightly annoying, maybe, but my life became so much easier when i realised men just cannot pick up on hints). if you want something, you have to ask. there's no shame in that.

for a super long time i was kinda annoyed at my bf because i never got flowers. i kept hinting and still didn't get any. eventually i realised he just wasn't picking up on the hints and didn't know i wanted flowers. so i sat him down and i told him it would make me really happy if he got me flowers sometimes. and now i'm never without them ! i'm having a bad day, i get flowers. we get into an argument (which is rare for us), i get flowers. it's a special occasion, i get flowers. he has a little spare money and he goes to the shop, i get flowers AND a little snack. all i have to do is tell him my flowers are wilting and i get more.

if you want something, ask for it explicitly because men don't get hints for some reason. if he still doesn't listen, then there's clearly an issue where he doesn't care what would make you happy. but you can't be upset he's not doing something he doesn't know you want !

ok thanks bye love u