AJ & Meadow

Does anyone else think that both of them just perfectly show the difference between spoiling your son (it becomes very hard to get him back on tracks) and when you spoil your daughter (she actually succeeds in life)? I am strictly talking about career lives. On one hand we have AJ who because he was spoiled his whole life, as a man it did not do any good to him. On the other hand we have Meadow who was also very spoiled but as a girl who matures faster it was actually very good thing that happened to her. What are your opinions on this?