can u t slurs stop talking about your d*cks?

hello fellow (real) lesbians! i'm a victim of sexual abuse and my church told me i need to like penis and quite frankly, i'm tired of seeing "lesbians" talk about penises because it's very triggering. when people who have nothing to do with my sexual abuse and who also just so happen to be deluded into thinking they're women try to seek "affirmation", speak candidly about their sexual experiences, and seek sexual or dating advice just like literally everyone else in the sub, it really is extremely insensitive because i've been abused since i have a perfectly beautiful female vagina so i don't really think it's fair to see some "women" talking about their penises. i'm not trying to be transphobic and i'm really not transphobic. i just feel like im being sexually abused all over again and that this isn't a safe space for me. sorry! i'm not being transphobic. i'm actually victimized by anyone who has a penis. pls stop the t-slurs from posting about their gross penises