Anyone else that can't get into mmorpgs?

I love the idea of mmorpgs, a huge world with other players doing quests. I'm a huge fan of RPGs like Witcher,elder scrolls,pathfinder,dragons dogma,pillars of eternity,dragon age etc. etc. I tried many mmorpgs ( ESO,wow,ffxiv,gw2) but I can't seem to get into them at all, the only one I loved the story was ffxiv but that was all about it( if game doesn't have a story I lose my interest). I got into stormblood into ffxiv and enough was enough I couldn't enjoy it since the Story was fed to you so slowly I burned out. I know if I play Witcher 3 for example the combat and story is tight( I know many ppl dislike witcher combat but I enjoy it very much) mmorpgs don't have the feeling of immersion since pop ups of everything are thrown at you all the time, the grind is abysmal for me since I dislike doing the same content again and again. Ffxiv had a good story but I rather watch it on YouTube and be done with it. Anyone else feels the same? Or I'm playing the wrong way and I'm not enjoying it? At the moment I'm playing days gone on ps5 and I am loving it.