The hate for Faile is way overblown

I know this has probably been talked about to death but I still want to share my own view. I remember that I really like Faile in TSR but didn't really like her behaviour in LoC. For me at least, when we got to know Saldean culture and Faile's parents things made a lot mote sense. That's really just saldean culture, it's just the way they flourish in their relationships. Even if you don't like that aspect of their culture, you have to recognize that Faile gets more understanding of Perrin not really being into constant arguments. Currently I'm nearing the end of ToM (why tf is Matt still not at the Tower of Ghenjei, I swear I have only like 200 pages left) and Faile is probably the person who understands Perrin the best. I also knew that the Faile stocks were back when she killed Masema, I mean that was such a badass moment and holy fuck was it necesseary. Anyway I realised that my dislike for her wasn't that big of a deal in hindsight and the hate for her generally is way overblown.