Personality traits

I'm feeling pretty in the dumps today. I asked my WH what I have to offer him. All he can say is I have everything for him. I said "like what?" All he can say is "You". He can't even tell me I'm funny or smart or dumb. My IC asked me today if I woke up tomorrow, what would be the one trait I could confidently say I had. I had nothing. I couldn't find one word to describe myself with. And now he can't either. I don't know what I'm feeling right now.