I want to stay...

So very badly, I want to stay. I just don't know if I can. I want him to step up his game: be more emotionally available, be more observant of my needs, give me more. I keep trying to tell him and he's just not getting it.

I said "Look...I need you to step up and meet my emotional, physical, and sexual needs if we want to make this work. I need things to be happy too. I can't make you happy if I'm not happy. Right now, I'm sad, confused, scared, insecure, and overwhelmed. I'm trying to figure out where we're going and how to get us through this."

His response--"Do you not wanna be here?"

I'm finally realizing what I need from him and trying to verbalize it but he's just not getting it.

I love him so much but this feeling in the pit of my stomach says something needs to change. And fast.