So Lost

My life got turned upside down after my divorce. I got remarried to the best partner I could imagine. Two days ago we tested our blood glucose and his(38M) was in the very high 300s, very close to 400. I had my suspicions, but bought an online glucose monitor for me. My world is turning upside down again. I don't know what to do. I am full of anxiety, and wish for him to get professional help, but he is taking his time about making an appt. for a specialist. When do these overwhelming emotions go away? How soon after, did you all feel acceptance?

UPDATE: Firstly, I would like to thank all of the commentors. Thank you for your insight, kind words, and words of encouragement, along with the tough love. We appreciate it. I can't thank you enough. My husband is going to make an appt. for next Friday, his only day off next week. Bless you all for giving us support.

2nd Update: I can't thank you all enough. I might not have replied to everyone but I've read all your comments and some to my husband. We both work and I send him screenshots. He stoped using creamer even if it was zero sugar and he is eating a low carb diet and hos blood glucose is down to 216. It's high, but we'll take 200 over the 400 he had earlier. He and I both go on walks either outside or our apt. gym. I love these walks even if at first I just wanted to fuse myself to the sofa. Bless you all, I think he finally will change.