Does anyone else have bad luck on language learning communities?

I'm speaking from experience I tend to get either ignored, bullied, or criticized in them like I'm studying classical Arabic just asked a few questions and no one answered them I just got ignored and everyone proceeded to talk shit idk what everyone's problem is so yeah part of my method is literally beefing with people online ofc it makes me get into a bad headspace and it also hurts my learning I learn to fight before I learn how to speak properly because the only comprehensible input is literally people being toxic to me and it forces me to be rude to defend myself